Feelings about how to parent seem to shift with every generation. A new way of parenting, sometimes called attachment parenting, has emerged and it challenges many of the rigid teachings of our mother’s generation. Although breastfeeding is on the rise now, women are still dealing with the repercussions of previous generations.

Not too long ago mainstream women did not breastfeed at all and the ones that did were taught to follow strict schedules. Some thought of breastfeeding as primitive. Formula was touted as being equal to or superior to breast milk. Only recently, has the fact that “breast is best” been acknowledged. Other women were in the workforce. They may have felt that breastfeeding was not an option for them.

They did not have the modern breast pump available to them. The medical community may not have encouraged breastfeeding at the time. It is not hard to imagine. After all, even with all the knowledge about the benefits of breastfeeding there are still many health professionals today that are uneducated and unsupportive of breastfeeding.

With all the challenges in the way of breastfeeding, it is understandable why many women of yesterday did not choose to breastfeed.

Breastfeeding has come a long way but still many of the old thinking still carries on. Women are more educated on the subject; however, even with the many books and other information available, people are often most influenced by their immediate family and friends. Having the support of friends and family can boost the chances of having a successful breastfeeding experience. On the other hand, having to deal with criticism and misinformation from the people you are close to can sabotage a new mom trying to breastfeed.

There are many ways to deal with the negativity of others. One of the best things you can do is to try to understand why the person feels the way they do. Is it because they were taught differently about breastfeeding? Were they indoctrinated with the ideas that breastfeeding is primitive or inferior? Or is it that they feel breasts are a sexual object? Maybe they have never seen someone breastfeed and it makes them uncomfortable.

This is the case with a lot of people. Once breastfeeding in public becomes more commonplace, perhaps, this will become less of a problem. Whatever the case, finding out the root of the person’s issues with breastfeeding may help to resolve the tension.

Here are some things you can do to deal with criticism.

Be positive: It is hard for someone to argue with a happy, positive person. If you are excited and enthusiastic about breastfeeding it can be contagious

Try to educate them: Find information on the benefits of breastfeeding to mom and baby and share this with them. You don’t have to “push this down their throat”. Just be enthusiastic about your decision to breastfeed and share with them why you decided to.

Be sympathetic: A lot of times women are defensive because breastfeeding did not work out for them. If you sit and talk with any woman that really wanted to breastfeed, you can hear the sadness in her story. Try to be sympathetic and non-judgmental. Don’t say things like “you could have or should have”. Share your experience, be positive, and let them know you care.

Try not to get angry: Breastfeeding conversations can get very heated. Getting angry with someone is not likely to change her feelings. It will just make you and her upset. If you don’t feel like you can talk about breastfeeding with this person change the subject or avoid talking about it.

Use your doctor as your advocate: Sometimes the best thing you can do is tell someone that this is what your doctor recommends. What you think means very little to some people but a doctor’s word carries weight.

Don’t be sarcastic or insulting: Belittling someone is likely to make someone defensive. It is not a good approach to winning someone over. You may turn an opportunity to educate someone into a personal attack.

Stand your ground: Do not let someone else decide how you are going to parent. If they are uncomfortable then they will have to come to terms with it. You do not have to change the way you parent to suit someone else.

If nothing is working then you may just let the person know that you do not want to discuss the issue with them any more. Hopefully, it doesn’t come to this.

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When you choose to bottle fed your child your need to be extra vigilant in taking care of your baby’s teeth. Study after study has shown that babies that are bottle-fed suffer more dental problems than those that are exclusively breastfed. The following are two reasons why this should be so.

Infant formula typically contains more sugar than does breast milk. This is a contributing factor in something called ‘baby bottle tooth decay’. Tooth decay is caused by bacteria that eat into the tooth’s enamel. Bacteria require three things to flourish; water, warmth and sugar. All of these are plentiful when bottle-feeding.

But it isn’t only the sugar that is present in baby formula that causes more tooth decay than breastfeeding does: it’s also because of the way some parents feed their child. Many parents are guilty of putting baby to sleep with the bottle left in the child’s mouth. The bottle is used much as one uses a pacifier. This is, too say the least, detrimental to a child’s teeth. As the baby sleeps, warm, sugary milk flows over the teeth and gums, which is the perfect breeding ground for bacteria.

So, if you do feed your child infant formula you must ensure that you clean you child’s teeth regularly. Brushing teeth should begin as soon as the first teeth emerge. Don’t use regular toothpaste - your child will swallow this and it can be harmful- instead, use a baby toothpaste.

When you are trying to lose the weight that you gained during pregnancy, you will come across all sorts of weight loss tips. Some tips will work for you, while others will not. The important thing is to remember that no matter which tip or tips you follow, losing all your pregnancy weight gain is going to take some time. Some women will hang on to the last few pounds they have to lose until they stop breastfeeding. Eat smaller portions. Don’t skip meals or limit your intake of fruits and vegetables. Do not fret about weight loss or regaining your figure. If you focus on eating healthily, your body will respond by losing any excess weight.

Try not to be tempted by empty-calorie-foods like ice-cream. Most women will be back to their pre pregnancy weight within nine months of delivering IF they follow a regular exercise program and eat healthily after delivery.

Tips For Losing Weight After Pregnancy

It is a widely debated topic amongst health professionals that people do not consume enough water. As a result, most people walk around mildly dehydrated most of their lives. Water is vital for life and energy, and if you are busy mum the chances are you will be neglecting your intake of water. I can’t stress enough the importance of drinking water throughout your day.

A drastic weight loss after delivery is not normal. The safest range of losing weight is between 0.5 and 2.0 pounds per week. It should not be more than this. Normally, you gain about 30 pounds on an average during the nine months period. After giving birth, you lose 13 per cent of the weight automatically. The remaining weight requires some effort to be kicked out.

Cut out sodas. These are unneeded calories.

Make your food interesting. Don’t just have a salad – spice it up with some chicken. Buy a healthy eating cookbook and try a few different recipes. Yoyu’ll soon falter if you’re eating the same old thing day in day out.

Eat slowly. Be relaxed and chew thoroughly

The best and most easy form of exercise is “walking”. It is so simple; all you need is a comfortable pair of shoes! You may also take your little bundle of joy along with you.

Wake up half an hour earlier and join in with the exercise class on morning television. If nothing else, it will get your blood pumping and get you awake.

Beginning exercise - It’s a good idea to start taking short, easy walks as soon as it feels comfortable for you. If weather permits, simply load up the baby in the stroller and take brisk walks to the park, library, neighborhood coffee shop or anywhere that makes the exercise walk enjoyable. If you have a reliable baby sitter, joining a local gym would be an excellent idea.

Pamper yourself: - Be good to your self. You have just come out of the difficult pregnancy period. So take time to care about your health. You are an extremely busy and important person now. You are a Mother. Allow yourself to be in shape and get comfortable with your body, don’t do it for the rest of the world.

Is it possible to lose weight and regain your figure after having a baby?

Yes, it is! Having a baby does not mean you have to be fat. Lots of new moms regain their pre-pregnancy figure within 8-12 months. True, it takes time for your body to get back to normal, but don’t despair. Eat properly, get active and let nature do the rest.

Remember, slow and steady wins the race with regard to weight loss.

Reward yourself for each “baby step” you take, and remember to pamper yourself on occasion during the post partum period. Before you know it, you will recover your figure and feel great, without suffering in the process!

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Breastfeeding is a fantastic time for moms to bond with their newborn babies while giving them vital nutrients essential for their growth. It is important that you prepare yourself for breastfeeding before giving birth to make the transition to your nursing role as smoothly and painlessly as possible. Here’s a couple of breastfeeding gear a nursing mom must have: - A bottle of Lansinoh Lonolin lotion to heal sore and cracked nipples. - Nursing bras for the support of your enlarged and heavier breasts. - Nursing tops for quick access to your breasts via discreet flaps for your baby to feed. - Breast pads in your bra to keep your breasts dry and prevent unwanted leaks. - A baby sling for hands-free support of your baby while you are breastfeeding. How To Position Your Baby During Breastfeeding The most common breastfeeding position is the cradle position. Other positions include the cross-cradle (transverse), tailor, lying down and clutch (football) positions but I cannot cover all of them in this article due to the restrictions on the article length. You can do the cradle hold on a chair or bed in a sitting posture.
You might want to place a normal pillow or nursing pillow on your lap to make it more comfortable for you and your baby. Straighten your back and ensure there is sufficient support for your arms and back because you will be in this position for quite a while. Place your baby on your lap or pillow in such a way that your bellies touch each other. Rest your baby’s head on either of your elbow bends depending on which nipple you wish to start nursing from and ensure his/her mouth is directly in front of your nipple. Use one of your hands to support your baby’s head and spine while your other hand may be used to hold onto your breast if required. How To Get A Good Latch On A good latch on will ensure a pleasant breastfeeding experience for you and your baby. Contrarily, an improper latch on will cause you a lot of distress and result in inadequate milk to your baby. Breastfeeding should be a comfortable process even though there may be discomfort at the beginning. Hold your breast with one hand and brush your nipple on your baby’s lips to entice him/her to open wide. Bring your baby towards your nipple and make sure he/she has a large portion of the areola in his/her mouth. Remove your baby if you feel the latch was not done properly and repeat the process till you get a good latch on. Frequency and Duration Of Breastfeeding A newborn baby requires breastfeeding every 2 hours during the day and every 3 hours at night, which adds up to roughly 8 to 12 feedings per day. It is important that you ensure your baby does not go beyond 3 hours without breastfeeding. Be alert for any baby hunger signs like increased activity, sucking, rooting or mouthing in between feedings to keep your baby well fed.
The average time of each nursing session varies and it usually lasts 20 to 30 minutes or however long your baby takes to be full. It is highly recommended to begin breastfeeding as early as possible after child birth and maintain an exclusive breastfeeding diet for a minimum of 6 months. On average, a child will usually breastfeed till they are 2 years old. Use a Nursing Tank also!

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